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Question how to cope with death?

alright guys, this will probably be the most serious thread i will ever make. so douchebags please stay out or keep your stupid ****in comments to yourself.


Alright, how do you guys cope with death? not just death. but death of someone you love and care about, or even yourself. Every once and a while i become afraid of death. it just hits me. I heard a song today and it triggered it. Im very close with my mother and father obviously, but as im getting older (only 21) i realize that one day they and I will be no more. I know one day i will get married, have kids, and see myself growing old and my parents growing older. I just cant handle that thought. idk what it is, but death scares the **** out of me. and here is why:

You have no control over it. i hate not having control over something like this. I understand its the way of life and it happens to everyone. I just sit here and think "my life is great, why does it all have to end" i have parents that love me, support everything i do, give me every opportunity in the book and yet still one day, it will all end. And everything i did in the past will no longer matter.

In 2007, i met the girl of my dream and the girl i will one day marry. i know this. but...try to stay with me here...i actually love her too much. I love this girl with all my heart, i would do anything for her in the blink of an eye. no questions asked, no price tag too great. But when we first started dating i actually had a dumb idea that i love her so much, it will actually hurt me to see her grow old and pass away. I just dont want to see it happen to anyone i love. especially her. she keeps me young, shes playful, young hearted, young minded and keeps me young at heart. I know this sounds crazy, but thats what i thought. and this month we will be together for 1 1/2 yrs. i know i wanna grow old with her, i wanna have her by my side every morning and every night for the rest of my life.

Idk if everyone believes this, some do, some dont. to each their own. but what about afterlife, reincarnation. what if afterlife im as happy as i am today, what if i get to be with her for eternity after death. what if after you die you dont even know it and life continues "subconsciously" forever. reincarnation scares me the most. What if i come back homeless, or as a murderer, or an abused kid, a rapest. What if i am not given the opportunities in my next life that i have been given in this one. what if things go south for me.

my parents are in their low 50's and i know that is young but my mother has had breast cancer 3 times and i just lost a dear friend to breast cancer earlier this year. i know each day is not guarantied and that you should live each day as if it were your last. What if something were to happen to her, what if my father were to get sick suddenly. these two people mean everything to me, to loose either of them will be devastating.


I am sitting here at 1am in the morning with my beautiful girlfriend laying in bed sound asleep as i sit here with my back against the wall, tears streaming down my face as i just typing away. looking at her sleep. no care in the world. the most beautiful thing i have seen. This happens maybe 3 or 4 times a year. I just break down at night and cry. not gonna lie about it, not gonna bs you. i just cry. a lot. things are just going so perfect for me, i realize they are going to end some day. I know this is a whole thread of "WHAT IF" but those what ifs will happen one day.
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Old 09-06-2010, 12:00 AM
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alright guys, this will probably be the most serious thread i will ever make. so douchebags please stay out or keep your stupid ****in comments to yourself.


Alright, how do you guys cope with death? not just death. but death of someone you love and care about, or even yourself. Every once and a while i become afraid of death. it just hits me. I heard a song today and it triggered it. Im very close with my mother and father obviously, but as im getting older (only 21) i realize that one day they and I will be no more. I know one day i will get married, have kids, and see myself growing old and my parents growing older. I just cant handle that thought. idk what it is, but death scares the **** out of me. and here is why:

You have no control over it. i hate not having control over something like this. I understand its the way of life and it happens to everyone. I just sit here and think "my life is great, why does it all have to end" i have parents that love me, support everything i do, give me every opportunity in the book and yet still one day, it will all end. And everything i did in the past will no longer matter.

In 2007, i met the girl of my dream and the girl i will one day marry. i know this. but...try to stay with me here...i actually love her too much. I love this girl with all my heart, i would do anything for her in the blink of an eye. no questions asked, no price tag too great. But when we first started dating i actually had a dumb idea that i love her so much, it will actually hurt me to see her grow old and pass away. I just dont want to see it happen to anyone i love. especially her. she keeps me young, shes playful, young hearted, young minded and keeps me young at heart. I know this sounds crazy, but thats what i thought. and this month we will be together for 1 1/2 yrs. i know i wanna grow old with her, i wanna have her by my side every morning and every night for the rest of my life.

Idk if everyone believes this, some do, some dont. to each their own. but what about afterlife, reincarnation. what if afterlife im as happy as i am today, what if i get to be with her for eternity after death. what if after you die you dont even know it and life continues "subconsciously" forever. reincarnation scares me the most. What if i come back homeless, or as a murderer, or an abused kid, a rapest. What if i am not given the opportunities in my next life that i have been given in this one. what if things go south for me.

my parents are in their low 50's and i know that is young but my mother has had breast cancer 3 times and i just lost a dear friend to breast cancer earlier this year. i know each day is not guarantied and that you should live each day as if it were your last. What if something were to happen to her, what if my father were to get sick suddenly. these two people mean everything to me, to loose either of them will be devastating.


I am sitting here at 1am in the morning with my beautiful girlfriend laying in bed sound asleep as i sit here with my back against the wall, tears streaming down my face as i just typing away. looking at her sleep. no care in the world. the most beautiful thing i have seen. This happens maybe 3 or 4 times a year. I just break down at night and cry. not gonna lie about it, not gonna bs you. i just cry. a lot. things are just going so perfect for me, i realize they are going to end some day. I know this is a whole thread of "WHAT IF" but those what ifs will happen one day.
Right here is the best answer! I have been with my gf for 4 years now she helped me more than anyone could have my senior year when my parents kicked me out and I had no where to go. I myself think about this all the time because I to care so much about my whole family no matter what they have done to me or anyone else id hate to lose them. I know they feel the same about me and this is why I dont take the little shit for granted or hate on something for to long.
I work in a hospital as a security guard and I see the worst of the worst! It kills me seeing babys and young children die or loose parents for that matter. It happens everyday and it kills me inside! I am a very emmotioal person and sometimes break down at work when I see family mourning because no one could help one of there family members in need.
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you have to accept the fact that noone is here forever and weather or not you have faith(i personally dont) you have to realize that you can only have the opportunity once and you have to grab it while you can.
if you go through life stopping things bcuz the future their wont be a future
hope that helped at all
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Live everyday as it your last. I have been having scares for the past 3 months. Damn heart PVC. YOu think your going to die when you get them. SO it has made me realize at 30 years old i may not be around forever. I have a 4 year old daughter to take care of. Sounds to me you got your head on straight but try to just not put to much worry into it. Stay healthy and live life to the fullest. YOu dont want to wake up one morning and realize you wish you could of done this or that. I think when we die thats it. It just ends! you wont remember anything, the lights just go out! But if there is a after world im sure its not going to be bad place (i hope). GOt any adavan? take one and go to sleep....
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Live everyday as it your last. I have been having scares for the past 3 months. Damn heart PVC. YOu think your going to die when you get them. SO it has made me realize at 30 years old i may not be around forever. I have a 4 year old daughter to take care of. Sounds to me you got your head on straight but try to just not put to much worry into it. Stay healthy and live life to the fullest. YOu dont want to wake up one morning and realize you wish you could of done this or that. I think when we die thats it. It just ends! you wont remember anything, the lights just go out! But if there is a after world im sure its not going to be bad place (i hope). GOt any adavan? take one and go to sleep....
im no where near in bad shape as you.
at 17 i have brain hemorrhage in my frontal lobe and not sure how long im going to be with it but you gotta do what you can while you can
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coming from my grandmas funeral today I can relate very much to this as its something I have been recently thinking about. Nothing lasts forever, atleast not in a physical state. Its a hard thing to accept, we may talk about it but to really ponder it and accept it, its not easy. Everyone deals with things differently so I cant say how i feel about it will be the same as you but I do hope you accept its simply something we dont have control over, in the end death will come but how we live our life up to that point is what is important, be the best friend, boyfriend, father, grandfather you can be and give life your all.
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you have to accept the fact that noone is here forever and weather or not you have faith(i personally dont) you have to realize that you can only have the opportunity once and you have to grab it while you can.
if you go through life stopping things bcuz the future their wont be a future
hope that helped at all

Thats true, but... The great ricky bobby said once "No one lives forever, no one. But with advances in modern science and my high level income, it's not crazy to think I can live to be 245, maybe 300. Heck, I just read in the newspaper that they put a pig heart in some guy from Russia. Do you know what that means?"


Lol, sorry this thread needs comic relief.

But carpe diem bud. I may get that tattooed on me one day. Enjoy it while it last.
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Thats true, but... The great ricky bobby said once "No one lives forever, no one. But with advances in modern science and my high level income, it's not crazy to think I can live to be 245, maybe 300. Heck, I just read in the newspaper that they put a pig heart in some guy from Russia. Do you know what that means?"


Lol, sorry this thread needs comic relief.

But carpe diem bud. I may get that tattooed on me one day. Enjoy it while it last.
lol that made my day from bad to good right there
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lol that made my day from bad to good right there
I couldnt help myself, when i read the first post that immediatly popped in my head lmao
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bahahahaha sad part is i read it (out loud) with the same accent he used in the movie XD
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