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Old 11-07-2010, 12:46 AM
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Alright first of all dumping or saying fvck it, is not an option.

I lost all my social life after ive been dating this girl. Now shes my fiance so i try to leave the house and hang out with a few buddies. got home 10 min after midnight im getting b1tched at because i was supposed to be home at midnight.... i dont do anything anymore. i have no life. anyone else going through this problem.....

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How old are you? You have a curfew? Tell her to eat a ****. If you're old enough to get engaged the is no way you should have a curfew.
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It happens. When you first started dating, it probably wasnt a problem, and then it just gradually got more and more restricting and you never paid attention, until now.

How old are you, out of curiousity?

You need to tell her that it's bothering you, or you need to just learn to cope. Sneaking around gets you nowhere, neither does arguing consistently.
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If she can't be understanding then it is time for her to go.
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It happens. When you first started dating, it probably wasnt a problem, and then it just gradually got more and more restricting and you never paid attention, until now.

How old are you, out of curiousity?

You need to tell her that it's bothering you, or you need to just learn to cope. Sneaking around gets you nowhere, neither does arguing consistently.
This man speaks the truth.

Relationships are about compromises and understanding. If you can't compromise with her, you're going to be miserable when you're married (to any girl if the behavior continues).
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im 20... kinda young i know. idk first time in a long time im with my buddies and i cant even relax. and it was gradual. i used to party all the time and now i cant even relax at my own house and drink a beer. stress levels are high. stopped smoking for her, all i want is a cig
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She needs to understand that

A ) you are NOT the perfect guy. You are not the dude of her dreams. Shit happens.

B ) SHE needs to learn to compromise(I'm sure she does on some things, but this is your story!) - if you're the only one compromising, she wears the pants, controls the relationship and most aspects of it and you're just going to be her personal ***** until you've had enough. I'm watching this happen with a friend and his wife. He snapped one day, but they're back together now. She doesnt ***** when he hangs out with the boys anymore, either, but that's two different people - not you and your girl.

I wish you the best, but you need to do something. Doing nothing has consequences too.
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im 20... kinda young i know. idk first time in a long time im with my buddies and i cant even relax. and it was gradual. i used to party all the time and now i cant even relax at my own house and drink a beer. stress levels are high. stopped smoking for her, all i want is a cig
I hate to say it but the kind of girl that would make you quit smoking and cause you extra stress at the same time is good for nobody and will never change.Probably get worse
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im 20... kinda young i know. idk first time in a long time im with my buddies and i cant even relax. and it was gradual. i used to party all the time and now i cant even relax at my own house and drink a beer. stress levels are high. stopped smoking for her, all i want is a cig
You gotta ask yourself, what's more important to you, her or the other stuff?

My gf and I have been together for almost 4 years now, when we met we were both crazy party animals that drank too much. We both did things that upset each other, but we talked about it, compromised, and have worked through it. Now we're older and that sort of stuff is a distant memory.

At some point you grow up (for most people), are you going to be more upset that she's not in your life still, or that you didn't stay partying for as long as possible? You can only have a mature relationship if both people are on the same page. The gf I had before her, I wasn't there yet. She wanted to have kids, I wanted to have parties. Wasn't gonna work. My current gf is on the same page as me that we need to focus on our careers first, and worry about families and stuff later.
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fckkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkk me. just a shitty day. thanks guys. either way im sleepin on the couch tonight
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